Mariah Foley 
Staff Writer

Valentines Day is designated to celebrate the love that people truly hand out all year around.  It is beautiful to see people taking the time to recognize their relationships and truly care about each other, whether it’s by giving gifts, throwing a party, or handing out cards and candies.

Some think that this day of love is only for people who are in a steady relationship; some even recognize it as “Singles-Awareness Day.” Although I agree that couples might appreciate this holiday more, singles can benefit from this special day in ways that couples can’t.

For those that absolutely despise the holiday, changing its name will not make them feel strong or empowered. If thinking of the oncoming holiday gives one feelings of anger or makes them upset, their issues probably show up more than one day a year. That may sound harsh, but honestly, single people should really take advantage of the benefits being single gives them.  On Valentines Day, no one expects everyone to participate, and there is nothing required of you. This is a day to remember that although having a valentine can be special, the term “love” covers more than just an intimate relationship.

Most people in love are the only ones who really get into the day to celebrate love, mostly because they want to show the other person that they cherish them above all others. When a person has a valentine, they are more likely to focus on their significant other than any other relationship in their life.  People in relationships on this coveted holiday feel obligated to spend their time and money on their significant other, and the media definitely supports this. I don’t think couples should hoard Valentines Day celebration to themselves, though.

Everyone, whether they’re single or not, should find a new way to view Valentines Day as a day to celebrate the people you love and recognize who you truly care about. I’m not saying to run out and find a date; I’m saying to take a chance to spend time with the ones you already have a relationship with.  Family and friends deserve to be recognized along with, or even take priority over a significant other.

Traditionally, people would send cards and candies to loved ones out of appreciation. This Valentines Day, maybe take some time to write love letters or thank-you notes to the ones who have helped you get through the year, the ones who have sacrificed something for you, the ones who truly love you. They don’t have to be a partner; everyone can benefit from just a small amount of appreciation from you.